baseball and life lessons

We are in the middle of fall baseball. I am loving it. Bryce has played at this park for several seasons now. I am familiar with the fields, with the schedules, and with a lot of other parents (tends to happen when you have been on 3 different teams). I like familiarity. And I really like that I get to spend a couple of hours with a few moms that I have become friends with over the last 2 seasons. Callie loves baseball too. We made sure that Bryce got on the same team with another boy that has a sister Callie's age. They became instant friends last season and she is very excited to be able to hang out with her again this season. So everyone is excited.....except for the baseball player himself. He started off excited. Then "it" happened. "It" being getting hit in the face with a baseball. "It" has completely changed his view on baseball. He no longer wants to play. He begs me to let him stay home. He tells me he wishes I had signed him up for soccer. The latest is he wants to play tennis because tennis balls are a lot softer. It's so frustrating to see him loathing something that only a month ago was one of his favorite things. So I have stood my ground and not let him quit. And I have told him that the more he plays the less scared he will be. Last night as I was tucking him in he asked "mom, don't you care that I'm scared?". Hard question. Really hard question. After much thought I told him that yes, I do care that he is scared. But one of the best lessons he can learn is to not run from fear. Sometimes you just have to take a deep breath and face your fears. I told him that sometimes you will find that the thing you are scared of isn't scary at all. That it is fun!! And I reminded him how scared he was to ride his bike, which is now one of his favorite things to do. He just shrugged his shoulders and shook his head. Kind of a deep lesson for a six year old. But it's one I hope he learns.

Here are some pictures from the season so far.... and notice that once he gets there he still smiles and has fun!!

disco fever and fever minus the disco

There is a lot of "fever" going around our house these days. Callie has been sick all week. Went to the doctor on Tuesday and they said possible flu and to keep a really close eye on her. Thursday I got the feeling that something just wasn't right (fever was 103.5, coughing was increasing, and she started throwing up) so I called the pediatrician and thankfully they squeezed us in. The diagnosis....pneumonia. Today was the 5th day of fever, coughing, etc. We are really hoping that the medicine kicks in and she starts improving tomorrow. For the most part she is a really happy sick kid, but she is extra whiny this week and goes to tears at the drop of a hat. I know she is getting stir crazy as is her mom!!!
Tonight Bryce got his own kind of fever....disco fever!!! They had a disco night at his school as a fundraiser for the PTA. We worked hard to find just the right outfit and the end result was pretty good. And I got an extra laugh at the fact that he wore girls jeans (slim at that!) to his first ever school dance. I really wanted to go but with Callie sick and Bryan working there was just no way. Thankfully the mom of a friend from school and baseball was happy to let Bryce tag along with them. The report at the end of the night?....he had a blast. And I was told that he is quite the dancer and a huge hit with the girls. Thank goodness he got his rhythm from me and not his dad!!!

Wishing

Bad Week..Really bad week. Not going to go into specifics but ranks right up there with most stressful bad weeks. ever. So there's that. And it has me thinking and wishing tonight for lots of things.... Wishing that instead of being in rainy Ga, I was here..

Or here....

Or here....

So here's to wishing. But you know, wishing can only get you so far. So I'm thankful for being blessed with great family and friends. No wishing needed in that department!!!

New beginnings

So I know I haven't blogged in like, forever. My crazy, busy life has been getting in the way of certain things. One of which is blogging. So I am not going to go back and rehash the summer, and the beginning of school, and all of the wonderful things that we have been up to. I will just try my best to keep it up to date from here on out. And for those few people that are interested, I will post a couple of my favorite photo's from the past several months.

First Days of School...

The Beach

vacation here we come...

We leave in the morning for a much needed vacation. Where, you ask? To Alligator point, Fl. Don't worry if you have no earthly idea where that is. I didn't either until we started looking for places to go. Just in case you are curious, Alligator point is located south of Tallahassee on the gulf. It is a really, really small peninsula. So small that the house where we are staying sits directly on the beach and directly across the driveway is the bay! We will be surrounded by water and I can not wait!! It should only be a five hour drive to Tallahassee (where we will pick up Lauren at the airport) and another hour or so to the beach. Oh, and here is a picture of the house where we will be staying...pretty nice!!

Ketchup

Life had been crazy, busy, chaotic, and fun lately. I have not had a spare moment to think, let alone blog. So today is "ketchup" day. Thought it might be a good idea to bring everyone up to speed before we leave for the beach on Saturday. I can not wait to sit in the sand with a drink and a good book. The kids are both at an age where they can play without needing me next to them at every moment. and it will help that there will be 5 other adults there to help entertain them. Relaxation here I come!! But back to ketchup....The kids both had their birthdays and we had a fabulous joint "Princess and Pirates Party". Fun was had by all and the kids enjoyed getting to spend time with their friends. I can't believe that they are 3 and 6! They are such wonderful, amazing, funny, smart kids and I thank God for them every second of everyday. How strange is it that I had 29 years on this earth before kids and yet I can't seem to remember what life was like without them. Nor would I want to. Being their mom is such a privilege and even in it's hardest moments I am so grateful to have been given this "job". Bryce and Callie both went to summer camp at their school and had a fourth of July parade...it was so cute! We have also spent some more time at the lake with friends. This is one of my favorite summer activities!! Callie is loving her new "big girl bike" and Bryce got a new hair cut, a faux hawk. So, that's it in a nut shell. Enjoy the pics of my 2 cuties and come back soon to see what is going on with us at the beach....did I already say I can't wait :)

swim lessons

The kids both started swim lessons today....

take a guess...

which child loved it...

and which child hated it...

Hard to figure out wasn't it!!!

fun in the summer time

We are having a fun and busy summer. The busy part being pretty obvious with the lack of blog updates!! Here are some photo's from the past couple of weekends....lake fun with cousin JJ, birthday parties, and fun in the sprinkler. There have been many other fun and exciting things but I have been pretty slack at getting my camera out. Weird, I know.

my little ballerina

Callie took her first dance class this week. She is taking ballet and tap once a week at her school. My mom took her to get her first ballet and tap shoes the week before and she was so excited! The day of her class she seemed a little apprehensive but joined in pretty quickly. It helps that 2 of her best friends from school are in the class....and they are all just so adorable in their little dance shoes and leotards. Having a girl is so much fun!!

Day in the mountains

MG and I took the kids up to the mountains yesterday for and adventure.  I think we had as much fun as the kids did.  It brought back memories of past road trips and made us both ready to go on a few more.   

First stop....strawberry picking!!  The kids didn't get into it as much as I thought they would.  Bryce and Cody saw a spider and after that it was all downhill with me and MG doing most of the picking.  Despite the spiders and the lack of participation from the under 6 crowd, it was still tons of fun!

Next stop...picnic and exploring.  We found a great spot in a WMA (wilderness management area) right by a river / stream.  We ate, the kids played, and a good time was had by all.  The water was ridiculously cold.  Like ice.  But the boys didn't seem to mind too much.  After eating and playing we drove a little way to a beautiful waterfall where the boys did a little swimming / wading.  When they finally decided they had had enough (I think the blue lips and chattering teeth were a sure sign) we changed clothes and piled back into the car.

Last stop....ice cream!  We found an adorable cafe /dessertery in a small town called Dahlonega and decided to get the kids a treat on the way home.   No better way to end a great trip then with a little ice cream!